Sorry to tell you but it is actual, real-life men who perpetuate misogyny
It is actual, real-life men who commit violence against women
You saying “A /REAL/ MAN WOULD NEVER DO [X]” is pointless and false because men definitely would and they DO
Your refusal to admit that they are R E A L men just makes it seem like men aren’t the culprit in the things that MEN are personally doing
If it’s not real men then who the fuck is it? Imaginary men?